Stay, leave, or burn it all down?
This is your toxic burnout exit strategy when you're too exhausted to decide.
I hear you, justice-minded, neurospicy overachievers. You're tired of being the counselor, the medic, and the logistics team. All they really want is to roast a damn marshmallow in peace.
Everyone's telling you to "just get a new job" but you're using all your energy to survive your current one.
You're googling "toxic job physical symptoms" at 2am but you're too crispy to actually DO anything about what you find.
Your therapist keeps saying "boundaries" and you're like "with what freaking energy Barbara??"
Here's the secret:Â
More Hard Work WON'T Save You.
For women and gender-expansive folks who’ve been the default camp director of every space they walk into. You're not imagining it. Your body is shutting down in response to an abnormal situation. If your out-of-office messages are lies, your Sunday scaries have scaries, and you're still answering emails from the canoe—this camp is for you.
This is the Energy Intervention your body has been BEGGING you forÂ
- 6 weeks to rebuild your energy reserves (not through capitalist self-care bullshit that doesn't work but through actual tested systems)
- Learn why you physically cannot say no right now (it's called a fawn response and toxic jobs trigger it on purpose)
- Build a request management system so people stop dumping shit on you
- Position yourself as strategic instead of just helpful, making landing the next job easier
And to be super clear: This is NOT job search strategy. You're not even clear headed enough to know if you're leaving or what kind of job to go to. This is building enough energy so you can clearly decide what's next, and then EXECUTE YOUR PLAN without having a breakdown.
It's time for your transformation:
The campfire has been burning you out instead of warming you.
You know the story:
You're all the things. All the time.
You’re the camper and the counselor. The director and the dishwasher. And somehow, the only one who remembers to pack sunscreen.
She's booked and busy... But it's not cute.
You don’t even know what rest looks like anymore, but you do know what a Google calendar with 6 overlapping meetings looks like.
So tired.
Can't Sleep.
You’re exhausted, and you know you need off the hamster wheel, but figuring out how to do that takes time and energy you don't have, so you need to get off the hamster wheel ...
And all that effort is getting you...? Trapped and unappreciated.Â
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Too scattered to move up. Too tired to move out. Too ::deep sigh:: to do anything but bounce back and forth between these two options, and ope, it's morning and time to do it all over again.
You've been sold a lie:
You’ve been promised that if you just "lean in," "work smart," and "stay grateful," it’ll all work out.  The truth is:
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Cream rises because it's lighter than everything else.
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You’re still behaving like “the cream will naturally rise to the top.” But let’s be really real: Cream doesn't rise because it works harder. Cream rises because it's light. Take some things off your plate and see how much easier it is to rise.
Step off the hamster wheel. Do less, strategically, and unlock the secret to:
- ... having a clear path to what's next and the energy to get there
- ... zipping up your tent on Sunday night and not open Slack until Monday (like, for real)
- ... being known for your brilliance, not your responsiveness
- ... learning how to say no without explaining yourself into an apology sandwich
- ... having weeknights that feel like hammocks and weekends that don’t belong to capitalism
- ... finally feeling what it’s like to be well-rested and well-paid
Picture this:
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You’re sipping iced coffee in your backyard with your laptop closed, because your workday actually ended.
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🌷 Your boss respects your boundaries.
🌷 Your calendar has white space.
🌷 Your salary finally matches your impact.
🌷 And your therapist says, "You seem...     really regulated."
Meet your Camp Director.
I’m Dara M Wilson, your Camp Director of Doing Less and Loving It. I help brilliant women and nonbinary folks recover from capitalist cults of overwork and remember what it feels like to have a life. I’ve helped clients earn over $600K in raises this year alone—without burning out or selling out.
After surviving toxic workplaces that tried to dim my light, I got TF outta there, rewrote my story, skyrocketing my salary by over $100K in two years. Now I help brilliant overachievers do the same through revolutionary rest that accelerates careers instead of stalling them.
Hear from others who've gained more by doing less:
 "I was the typical 'doer' and it had me exhausted. Working with Dara completely changed my relationship to work. I got the promotion I deserved and made a plan to get the hell out of there too, taking my time to land my dream role on my own terms."
~Â Erin
 "I said no to a meeting and nobody died. Seems small but was really the beginning of a new era for me"
~Â Monique
 "The assignments she had me work on and the conversations she coached me to have in my current position led me to a promotion at my current job. She's also pushed me to think about my career long term and get real about where I want to be in my near (and far!) future!"
~ Amanda
 "She's helped me SO much when it comes to how to approach tough conversations, how to prepare for asking for a promotion (and getting it!) and much more! Truly can't say enough great things about my coach!"
~ Joanne
Week 1: Your weekends belong to capitalism.
Week 6: Your out-of-office actually works.
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WHAT YOU’LL LEARN:
WEEK 1: Get Your Weekends Back
Stop working through Saturday "just to catch up" and ending Sunday with dread. Learn to scope like a CEO, shut down endless requests, and startresting like a revolutionary.
WEEK 2: Break Up With People Pleasing
Fall in love with saying no. Heal the part of you that thinks it’s your job to keep the whole campsite happy. Practice using your voice until setting boundaries feels like second nature.
WEEK 3: Become Workplace Royalty.
Stop being the camp cook AND janitor AND planner. Cut out energy-sucking tasks that make you look busy but keep you invisible. Start being seen as the strategic leader you actually are.
WEEKS 4-6:Â Practice Makes The Praise Roll In
Dial in your leadership brand. Cement your new boundaries. Rebuild your energy systems. And prepare to go back into the working world with your crown on straight—and your out-of-office message finally working.
Uncover the power you already have. And tap into it:
"Dara is helping me through my goals and I feel so much more confident in myself than I did a year ago. I can do anything…and I have."
~ Carla
WHAT'S INCLUDED:
- 6 Live Group Coaching Calls with Dara M Wilson (teaching + Q&A)
- 6 Study Hall Sessions for real-time implementation (BYO juice box)
- The Energy Liberation Workbook - Master the 5-day tracker, identify burnout patterns, implement strategic rest
- The Agency Reclamation Workbook - Heal your fawn response, practice power moves, build unshakeable boundaries
- The Strategic Leadership Workbook - Create your No-Waste Work Plan, build your strategic reputation, communicate your value
- Access to a Private Community Campfire (I mean platform :) )
- Recordings of all sessions so you never miss a s’more
THE REAL VALUE:
Your investment: $697
or 3 payments of $267
Plus! Get These
Game-Changing Bonuses:
🎉 The Toxic Job Detox Party - ON DEMAND
The workshop that started it all. Learn my proven 5-step system to neutralize workplace toxins and reclaim your energy. Watch whenever you need a reminder that your exhaustion isn't your fault. It's their system.
Valued at $297
Energy Tracker Templates
Discover exactly what's draining you with my proven tracking system
$97 valueBoundary Scripts Library
Word-for-word scripts that protect your energy without burning bridges
$147 value30 Days Post-Camp Support
Keep the transformation going with community support that actually gets it
$197 valueTotal Bonus Value: $738
Frequently Asked Questions
What happens after I enroll?
What if I can’t make the live calls?
Can’t I just read a book about this?
What’s the refund policy?
I work in a really toxic company/field - will this still work?
What level of support will I get?
Do I need to bring anything to camp?
Still have questions? Email me (Dara!) at [email protected].
